I loved Seth Goden’s blog of yesterday.  Though he speaks most in channels of business and career, I think these thoughts translate to a far wider realm.

Which are you?

…competent, inspiring, passionate, obsessed, provocative, impatient, hungry, driven, adoring, inspired, an artist, a genius, someone who cares…?

With all these remarkable, powerful, important options available to each of us, why do so many of us default to competent?

With all these remarkable, powerful, important options available to each of us, what kind of relationships do we default to, what kind of lovers are we, how do we treat those most important to us?  I believe that we can be, if we so choose, inspired adoring artists to those we love and we must demand that they be so to us.

The Eroticist