As most of you know, I am a new resident of the Austin area.  (Whew, election day, very different from California.)  I am reaching the end of a year long adventure with the Austin Mentor’s Program which has given me an opportunity to meet a large number of very experienced people, learn a great more deal about BDSM history, fire play, whips, sexual stimulation, Dominance, and rope bondage, as well as safety, responsibility and medical assistance.  It has been a good experience and a valuable way to meet and gain many new friends.

It also has given me inspiration and opportunities to develop demonstrations and lectures of my own, and this is where I would like your help.  I want to gather information about what individuals feel are necessary qualities and knowledge in order to enter into a healthy BDSM or kink relationship.  I would like to hear your thoughts about a long term 24/7 Master/slave relationship, and those casual, just in the bedroom adventures.  I want to hear from those who enjoy on line relationships, people with one partner or many.  My concentration is, what are the qualities or understandings that you feel you, or your partner(s) need to have in order to have a successful BDSM relationship.  I do not care if you feel you are in a long term successful relationship, or have never had a partner.  I want to know your thoughts.

Please feel free to write me by making a comment here or write me privately at TheEroticist@GMail.Com.  I would love to hear from you.

The Eroticist